A Conscious Alternative to Traditional Commitment
Why We Created The New Love Agreement
We didn’t fall into love — we built it.
Not out of tradition. Not out of fear. But out of years of listening, learning, and asking harder questions than most couples are willing to ask.
We’ve both been married before. We know what it feels like to be “all in,” only to discover the model itself wasn’t built to last — not for people who grow, question, evolve. Not for people like us.
When we found each other, we didn’t just want connection — we wanted consciousness. We weren’t looking for a default. We were looking for a design.
So we became architects.
Over five years, we pieced together something new — not from scratch, but from everything we’d learned:
From friends we admired and couples we wanted to learn from
From therapists and coaches — ours and others’
From books, podcasts, voice memos, and dinner table debates
From the mistakes we made and the clarity they gave us
And we wrote it down. All of it.
What emerged wasn’t just a relationship. It was an agreement. A living, breathing reflection of our values, our needs, and our shared commitment to growth.
It includes deep conversations and lighthearted check-ins. A prenuptial agreement and a will. Boundaries, deal breakers, dreams, and rituals. It’s honest. It’s alive. And every two years, we choose it again — or change it, together.
The New Love Agreement isn’t about fixing what’s broken. It’s about asking what could be better — and building it anyway.
This is for couples who:
- Want to co-create love instead of inherit a version that never fit
- Want clarity without coldness, structure without rigidity
- Believe that commitment should feel like freedom wrapped in devotion
And yes — we’ve had so much fun making it. Because nothing feels more liberating than creating love on your own terms.
Now we’re sharing it — not because it’s perfect, but because it’s real.
If you’re ready to design a relationship that reflects who you really are, you belong here.
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The New Love Agreement helps couples:
- Communicate clearly
- Set expectations without fear
- Feel empowered, not trapped
Validates what you already feel:
- “I want to be with you, but not lose myself.”
- “I want clarity, not default assumptions.”
- “I want to keep choosing each other — not coast into numbness.”
WHO THIS IS FOR
WHO THIS IS NOT FOR
WHO THIS IS NOT FOR
WHO THIS IS NOT FOR
- Highly traditional, religious couples who value permanence above all else
- People who believe commitment = no exit
- Anyone uncomfortable with frameworks that question societal norms
IS THIS YOU?
WHO THIS IS NOT FOR
WHO THIS IS NOT FOR
- Values-driven, relationship-curious adults who want something more conscious, flexible, and real than the old model.
- Those that desire for conscious partnership
- Those who fear stagnation
- Those who hope for a love that evolves as you do
The Family
Breanna and Paul met each other in 2018 just after both of them ended long term marriages (Paul 22 years and four kids, Breanna 18 years and two kids). The first two years they were together they repeatedly said "we are never doing that crazy marriage thing again." And then they stumbled onto the idea of a 2 year renewable marriage agreement. They spent another three years brainstorming on how they could make this work and below you will read two articles that explain the details of what they created and why they choose this vs. a traditional marriage.
The 2 Year Renewable Marriage Explained