Design the Relationship You Want

 We didn’t fall into love — we built it.

Not out of tradition. Not out of fear. But out of years of listening, learning, and asking harder questions than most couples are willing to ask.

We’ve both been married before. We know what it feels like to be “all in,” only to discover the model itself wasn’t built to last — not for people who grow, question, evolve. Not for people like us.

When we found each other, we didn’t just want connection — we wanted consciousness. We weren’t looking for a default. We were looking for a design.

So we became architects.

Over five years, we pieced together something new — not from scratch, but from everything we’d learned:

From friends we admired and couples we wanted to learn from

From therapists and coaches — ours and others’

From books, podcasts, voice memos, and dinner table debates

From the mistakes we made and the clarity they gave us

And we wrote it down. All of it.

What emerged wasn’t just a relationship. It was an agreement. A living, breathing reflection of our values, our needs, and our shared commitment to growth.

It includes deep conversations and lighthearted check-ins. A prenuptial agreement and a will. Boundaries, deal breakers, dreams, and rituals. It’s honest. It’s alive. And every two years, we choose it again — or change it, together.

The New Love Agreement isn’t about fixing what’s broken. It’s about asking what could be better — and building it anyway.

This is for couples who:

• Want to co-create love instead of inherit a version that never fit
• Want clarity without coldness, structure without rigidity
• Believe that commitment should feel like freedom wrapped in devotion

And yes — we’ve had so much fun making it. Because nothing feels more liberating than creating love on your own terms.

Now we’re sharing it — not because it’s perfect, but because it’s real.

If you’re ready to design a relationship that reflects who you really are, you belong here.